All over man, all over. I long fore casted that this is to be THE busy month for me and my family. However the year started out wrongly for us. A family emergency fell upon in the very start. But it came to a good end last week.
For nearly 5 days now I have been making trips to tekka either alone or with mother or with sister & brother-in-law or ahmutha (my fren & my makeup guru). Also met Agnes to get bangles and then also my sari blouse designer, Sarala to get my blouse. And other times trying to handle different kinds news, tips, lectures or jokes about my wedding in the most diplomatic way. Wearing out though....
Many of my friends have told me that when during wedding preparation you will get to know more about different cultural values, different family practises, different ways of doing things, different expectations, meeting expectations and so on. One particular guy friend of mine even commented that it shows how matured people really are.
1 matter that makes people think that its hard for me is Krishna not being here. But i find that hes doing a better job in finding out stuff about the wedding and voicing his opinions than myself.
For long now, Im not getting good sleep. Haha guess this is what most brides will be going through I think. Too many things to do. Packing, visa paperwork, cleaning the house, wedding stuff, spending time with family (which doesn't seem enough always though). My original plan is to finish every of my stuff esp my pampering sessions!!! and then wait for Krishna to arrive & continue with any others. Not really working.
For years we really wanted a simple wedding with few loved guests. But now I just can't wait for it to be over in whatever way. However I hope all will go well...... Do catch my blog on my wedding eve, might post something...haha